Gift Etiquette for Weddings
If you’ve been invited to a wedding, the first question is usually "what should I bring?" The answer isn’t a one‑size‑fits‑all, but the basics are easy to follow. Knowing who is expected to give, what types of gifts are appropriate, and how to handle money and timing will keep you from feeling awkward.
Who Should Give a Gift and What to Give
Close family members – parents, siblings, grandparents – are expected to bring a more substantial present. That could be a high‑end kitchen appliance, a contribution toward the honeymoon, or a personalized heirloom. Friends and coworkers can stick to the couple’s registry or choose a thoughtful, mid‑range item. If you’re unsure, check the registry first; it’s the couple’s way of saying exactly what they need.
Cash gifts are also common, especially when the couple prefers to fund a big purchase. A simple envelope with a handwritten note works well. Avoid giving overly personal items unless you know the couple’s taste inside out – a scented candle might be lovely for some, but not for others.
How Much to Spend and When to Send
The amount you spend should reflect your relationship and your budget, not a set rule. A good guideline is: close family – £150‑£300; friends – £75‑£150; coworkers – £25‑£75. If you’re part of a group, pooling money for a larger gift can feel more generous without breaking the bank.
Send your gift as soon as you can after receiving the invitation. If you’re sending a physical present, aim to have it arrive before the wedding day so it can be displayed at the reception. For cash or e‑gift cards, you can send them a week or two before the ceremony. If you’re unable to bring a gift before the event, a heartfelt thank‑you note at the reception followed by a mailed gift within a month is perfectly acceptable.
Don’t forget the thank‑you notes. The couple should receive a personal thank‑you within three months, but you can help by sending a quick thank‑you reminder or a friendly message after the wedding. A short note that mentions the specific gift shows you noticed and appreciate their effort.
Finally, keep the couple’s preferences in mind. Some couples have a “no children” or “no plus‑ones” policy, and they expect guests to respect those wishes without asking for explanations. When in doubt, a brief, polite inquiry to the couple or a close family member clears up any confusion.
By following these simple steps – know who’s expected to give, pick a suitable gift, stay within a comfortable budget, and send it on time – you’ll master wedding gift etiquette and make the couple’s day even more special.
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