Wedding Day Traditions: What Still Matters and What’s Changed

When we talk about wedding day traditions, customary rituals performed during a wedding ceremony and reception. Also known as wedding customs, these practices range from ancient symbolism to modern quirks that stick around because they feel right. Not every tradition has to be followed—but knowing where they came from helps you decide what to keep, change, or skip altogether.

Take the wedding ring exchange, the moment when partners swap bands as a symbol of commitment. Also known as ring ceremony, it’s one of the most personal parts of the day. Traditionally, the groom gives the bride a ring after the vows, but now many couples swap rings before, together, or even skip it entirely. Same with the garter toss, a practice where the groom removes the bride’s garter and tosses it to single guests. Also known as garter removal tradition, it once stood for good luck—but today, many couples replace it with a first dance, a photo moment, or just leave it out. The point isn’t to follow rules. It’s to honor what feels true to your relationship.

Then there’s the who pays for what, the long-standing idea that families cover specific wedding costs. Also known as traditional wedding expenses, this used to mean the bride’s family paid for the reception, the groom’s family covered the honeymoon, and so on. But today? Most couples in the UK and Ireland pay for their own weddings. That shift changed everything—from how brides choose their dress to how invitations are sent out. You don’t need permission to break a rule if it doesn’t fit your life.

Some traditions stick because they’re beautiful, not because they’re required. Wearing something blue? Meaningful. Carrying a family heirloom? Heartfelt. Walking down the aisle to a song your grandparents loved? Powerful. But if a tradition makes you uncomfortable, stresses you out, or feels like performative nostalgia—let it go. Your wedding doesn’t need to be a museum exhibit of old customs. It needs to be yours.

Below, you’ll find real advice from couples who’ve walked this line. Whether you’re wondering if you should tell your jeweler your budget, how many months ahead to send invites, or whether a black suit is okay for the groom, these posts cut through the noise. No fluff. No pressure. Just clear, practical takes on what’s still worth doing—and what’s time to retire.